Basketball
So, Travis just popped by for about half an hour. He just got out of basketball practise with the lil' ones and then he was going to be going to St Mary's for a church basketball league. Had a nice lil' time, mostly just talking about work and the whole Joelle thingy. I told him that I won't be coming in on Monday, will be hanging out with Melissa since she works for the government and now gets pretty much any holiday off *laughs*. Must be nice :).
But, it looks like Joelle and Todd will be trying to work it out, which is really good. I thought the whole "I want a divorce immediatly" was a bit overkill, but that was prolly just the anger of finding out your hubby's been dipping his pen in someone else's ink. Well, that and my opinion of monogamy is...well, not real solid. I would be hurt if Mike would ever cheat on me, but I wouldn't leave him over it. Hell, I prolly would be most upset that he did it behind my back and not invited me *laughs*. And it looks like they'll also be going to marriage counseling as well, which is also very good. However I didn't initially understand why one of her conditions was to sell the house before they could really "move on." I guess it's more of a chic thing that you have emotions tied to innanimate objects, like their house. Me personally it wouldn't bother me, but you'll have that. But, Travis also pointed out that she didn't wanna be tied to him in case of a "relapse" and that divorce wouldn't be hell. That makes more sense to me.
I didn't get to meditate though...as soon as I made the last post, I went to fold laundry and then Travis called me to see if he could come over for his intermission between practice and a game. But, as much as I hate to say it, I do like hanging out with Travis. It's actually really funny, to see us as kids, we pretty much hated eachother and do terriable, terriable things to eachother. But, now I couldn't imagine my life without him. I guess the gods amuse themselves by such things. That and watching to overly fat people have sex together...I bet they get out the popcorn and 3D glasses to see such things *chuckles*
So, with that, I'll be going out to fold some more laundry that just got done, finish off my Prince of Persia game (I'm fighting the last boss right now, haven't quite figured out how to kill him off yet), and then call Melissa and see what she's doing tonight and work on getting myself nicely drunk off my ass :)
But, it looks like Joelle and Todd will be trying to work it out, which is really good. I thought the whole "I want a divorce immediatly" was a bit overkill, but that was prolly just the anger of finding out your hubby's been dipping his pen in someone else's ink. Well, that and my opinion of monogamy is...well, not real solid. I would be hurt if Mike would ever cheat on me, but I wouldn't leave him over it. Hell, I prolly would be most upset that he did it behind my back and not invited me *laughs*. And it looks like they'll also be going to marriage counseling as well, which is also very good. However I didn't initially understand why one of her conditions was to sell the house before they could really "move on." I guess it's more of a chic thing that you have emotions tied to innanimate objects, like their house. Me personally it wouldn't bother me, but you'll have that. But, Travis also pointed out that she didn't wanna be tied to him in case of a "relapse" and that divorce wouldn't be hell. That makes more sense to me.
I didn't get to meditate though...as soon as I made the last post, I went to fold laundry and then Travis called me to see if he could come over for his intermission between practice and a game. But, as much as I hate to say it, I do like hanging out with Travis. It's actually really funny, to see us as kids, we pretty much hated eachother and do terriable, terriable things to eachother. But, now I couldn't imagine my life without him. I guess the gods amuse themselves by such things. That and watching to overly fat people have sex together...I bet they get out the popcorn and 3D glasses to see such things *chuckles*
So, with that, I'll be going out to fold some more laundry that just got done, finish off my Prince of Persia game (I'm fighting the last boss right now, haven't quite figured out how to kill him off yet), and then call Melissa and see what she's doing tonight and work on getting myself nicely drunk off my ass :)
